留恋过去,但没傻傻的一味``所以,我们并没对现状不满

那时候的我们可以聊得酣畅淋漓，可以很真诚的彼此祝福``

因为存在着的我们都在努力做着一个有梦的人``我们可以追到自己的精彩``

尽管现实有时让人觉得没太多的存在感``但我们依旧可以心潮澎湃的相互鼓励

记得偶尔调侃彼此的语调也来的那么亲切

都是耐的住寂寞的家伙,很强大的孩子

在这场不能回头的旅途中,怀揣着梦想,去追自己的幸福``

没有什么奢求``

存在着的我们,会把永远停留在那里

默默积蓄力量,等待每一次可能的精彩绽放

PS:怎么言语?这感受很奇妙```已经开始的奥运太精彩,只想在家守着电视机不想动哈~~加上患了感冒-_-!!!就更不打算出门了```恩恩,在家老实看奥运,积蓄力量,健儿们也会有更多的精彩``加油

  唐· 麦克林的一首脍炙人口的作品非属《Vincent》（文森特）不可，与《American Pie》相比，《Vincent》更像是一首借物抒情的个人小品，歌曲取材于梵高的名画《The Starry Night》（星夜），当然在唐·麦克林那轻柔的歌声中你也许已经无法将它联想到圣雷米的德莫索尔精神病院，在几近透明的木吉它和不加修饰的歌声里，你所能想到的也许只有一片点缀着莹莹星光的夜空，而绝对不会回想起在那幅画作问世13个月之后的那一声枪响，而是否每当一种宁静纯粹到绝对的程度时，也往往意味着另一种惊天动地的燥动也将随之而来，就如同梵高的悲剧一样。

 vincent—Starry night

Starry starry night //星光 星光闪耀的夜晚
paint your palette blue and grey //让调色板描绘出你深深地忧郁和晦暗
look out on a summer's day //让那双洞察我灵魂深处的眼睛
with eyes that know the darkness in my soul //面朝着夏日的白昼

Shadows on the hills //在这如雪般的画布上
sketch the trees and the daffodils //勾勒出丘陵的投影
catch the breeze and the winter chills //描绘那树丛和水仙花
in colors on the snowy linen land //捕捉微风和冬季的寒意

And now I understand //而此刻我才懂得
what you tried to say to me //你想对我诉说的那些故事
and how you suffered for your sanity //你因深深的思索而承受着苦闷
and how you tried to set them free //你因赋予思想自由而所做的一切
They would not listen //可是，那些人不会听到
they did not know how // 因为他们无法体会
perhaps they'll listen now //又或许  他们现在才知道

Starry starry night //星光 星光闪耀的夜晚
flaming flowers that brightly blaze //那些如烈焰般绽放的花儿
swirling clouds in violet haze //那些在紫罗兰的薄雾中旋转的云朵
reflect in Vincent's eyes of China blue //都在文森特瓷器一样湛蓝的眸子里
Colors changing hue //变幻着色彩

morning fields of amber grain //清晨琥珀色的原野
weathered faces lined in pain //风化了的脸孔镌刻着的痛楚
are smoothed beneath the artist's loving hand.//画家用深情手去抚慰那些忧伤

And now I understand //而此刻我才懂得
what you tried to say to me //你想对我诉说的那些故事
and how you suffered for your sanity //你因深深的思索而承受着苦闷
and how you tried to set them free //你因赋予思想自由而所做的一切
They would not listen //可是，那些人不会听到
they did not know how // 因为他们无法体会
perhaps they'll listen now //又或许  他们现在才知道

For they could not love you //尽管他们并不爱你
but still your love was true //可你的爱却是如此真实
and when no hope was left in sight on that //在那个只有绝望的星夜
starry starry night. //你带走了自己的生命
You took your life as lovers often do //就像殉情的爱人一样
But I could have told you Vincent //然而 我必须告诉你真相 文森特
this world was never meant for one //这世界上不会再有什么
as beautiful as you//如你一般的美好

Starry starry night //星光，星光闪耀的夜
portraits hung in empty halls //那些肖像悬挂在空寂的大厅里
frameless heads //一幅幅没有画框的头像
on nameless walls //在一面面不知名的墙壁上
with eyes that watch the world //用他们那令人难忘的眼睛
and can't forget//注视着这个世界

Like the stranger that you've met //就像你曾遭遇到的陌生人
the ragged men in ragged clothes //邋遢男人们穿着褴褛的衣衫
the silver thorn of bloddy rose //就像是躺在圣洁的雪地里的
lie crushed and broken on the virgin snow.// 血红的玫瑰中银白的荆刺

And now I think I know //而此刻我才懂得
what you tried to say to me //你想对我诉说的那些故事
and how you suffered for your sanity //你因深深的思索而承受着苦闷
and how you tried to set them free. //你因赋予思想自由而所做的一切
They would not listen //可是，那些人不会听到
they're not listening still //他们依旧不会听到
perhaps they never will//又或许  他们永远不会知道

似乎一开始就注定了这是个阴谋

无形的才最可怕

不知不觉

到底是谁成就了谁的阴谋

现在追究,简直傻的可笑

猜心是徒劳.至少对于某某

有时不必太明了

真的

因为.一开始就注定

这是个阴谋.

只是不清楚

是谁成就了谁而已

也许,又是一段想象式,在乎 OR 不在乎

Everybody’s Business

Lessons in Love, by Way of Economics

By BEN STEIN

Published: July 13, 2008

AS my fine professor of economics at Columbia, C. Lowell Harriss (who just celebrated his 96th birthday) used to tell us, economics is the study of the allocation of scarce goods and services. What could be scarcer or more precious than love? It is rare, hard to come by and often fragile.

C．Lowell HarrissSkip to next paragraph是我在哥伦比亚大学时的一位和善的经济教授，他刚刚庆祝完自己96岁的生日。他曾经跟我们讲，经济学研究的就是如何分配稀缺的资源和服务。有什么比爱更稀有，更珍贵的吗？爱的确很珍稀，难以获取，并且很脆弱。

My primary life study has been about love. Second comes economics, so here, in the form of a few rules, is a little amalgam of the two fields: the economics of love. (I last wrote about this subject 20 years or so ago, and it’s time to update it.)

我人生的第一课就是关于爱的学习，然后才是经济学，因此，从一些规律的形式来讲，就是两个领域的结合，即爱的经济学（我上次写这方面的主题是大约20年以前，现在该对它进行更新了）。

In general, and with rare exceptions, the returns in love situations are roughly proportional to the amount of time and devotion invested. The amount of love you get from an investment in love is correlated, if only roughly, to the amount of yourself you invest in the relationship.

总地来说，几乎绝少例外，爱的回报大致上与投入的时间和奉献总量是成正比的。你获得的爱与对爱的投入是相互关联的，如果粗略来算，就是与你自己在这段关系中的投入总量相称。

If you invest caring, patience and unselfishness, you get those things back. (This assumes, of course, that you are having a relationship with someone who loves you, and not a one-sided love affair with someone who isn’t interested.)

如果你投入关心、耐心和无私奉献，你也会被回报这些。（当然，这个假设，是建立在你与一个同样爱你的人之间的关系上的，并不是一厢情愿的单相思。）

High-quality bonds consistently yield more return than junk, and so it is with high-quality love. As for the returns on bonds, I know that my comment will come as a surprise to people who have been brainwashed into thinking that junk bonds are free money. They aren’t. The data from the maven of bond research, W. Braddock Hickman, shows that junk debt outperforms high quality only in rare situations, because of the default risk.

高质量的债券投资总会比垃圾债券获得更多的收益，高质量的爱情亦如此。关于债劵的收益，我想我的评价会使一些人大吃一惊，这些人被垃圾债劵会赚大钱的观念洗过脑，他们错了。债券专家W. Braddock Hickman的研究资料表明，由于违约风险，垃圾债券只是在极少的情况下表现比绩优债券强。

In love, the data is even clearer. Stay with high-quality human beings. And once you find you that are in a junk relationship, sell immediately. Junk situations can look appealing and seductive, but junk is junk. Be wary of it unless you control the market.

对于爱情而言，资料更为详实。要坚持与好品质的人交往。一旦发现处于“垃圾债券”的关系中，立即出手。“垃圾债券”的状态看起来似乎很有吸引力很诱人，但垃圾毕竟是垃圾。必须对它保持谨慎，除非你能掌控市场。

(Or, as I like to tell college students, the absolutely surest way to ruin your life is to have a relationship with someone with many serious problems, and to think that you can change this person.)

（或者，像我跟大学生们讲的那样，一个确信无疑能毁掉你生活的方法就是与一个有着各种严重问题的人关系密切，并自认为能够改变这个人。）

Research pays off. The most appealing and seductive (that word again) exterior can hide the most danger and chance of loss. For most of us, diversification in love, at least beyond a very small number, is impossible, so it’s necessary to do a lot of research on the choice you make. It is a rare man or woman who can resist the outward and the surface. But exteriors can hide far too much.

研究是有益的。最有吸引力和最诱人的外表下而藏着最大的危险和损失的风险。对我们大多数人而言，分散爱情的风险，是不可能的。因此有必要在你选择做大量的调查研究。极少的男人或女人能经得外表的诱惑，而表象可能藏得非常深。

In every long-term romantic situation, returns are greater when there is a monopoly. If you have to share your love with others, if you have to compete even after a brief while with others, forget the whole thing. You want to have monopoly bonds with your long-term lover. At least most situations work out better this way. ( I am too old to consider short-term romantic events. Those were my life when Lyndon Johnson and Richard Nixon were in the White House.)

在每一段长期的浪漫关系中，如果是垄断关系，回报会更大。如果你不得 不与别人分享爱情，如果你不得不在片刻过后与人竞争，那么忘记一切。你希望与你的长期爱人保持专一关系，这样至少大多数情况发展得更好。（我太老了没有考虑短期的浪漫关系，我生活在Lyndon Johnson和Richard Nixon在白宫主政的时代。）

The returns on your investment should at least equal the cost of the investment. If you are getting less back than you put in over a considerable period of time, back off.

你在投入上的回报应该至少与你投入的花费相称。如果你在相当长的一段时间内获得的回报比投入少，那么，赶紧撤退。

Long-term investment pays off. The impatient day player will fare poorly without inside information or market-controlling power. He or she will have a few good days but years of agony in the world of love.

To coin a phrase: Fall in love in haste, repent at leisure.

长期投会获利。那些缺乏耐心的人没有内部信息和对市场的掌控能力,将陷入困境。他（ 或她）在爱的世界中只会感到长年的痛苦，而不会有多少快乐。

如一句俗语：急切地爱，慢慢的悔。

Realistic expectations are everything. If you have unrealistic expectations, they will rarely be met. If you think that you can go from nowhere to having someone wonderful in love with you, you are probably wrong.

现实的期望就是一切。如果你怀有不切实际的期望，很少能实现。如果你 认为无论身在何处都能让一个优秀的人爱上你，那你可能错了。

You need expectations that match reality before you can make some progress. There may be exceptions, but they are rare.

你的期望必须与现实相符才能有所进展。或许有些例外，但是少之又少。

When you have a winner, stick with your winner. Whether in love or in the stock market, winners are to be prized.

当你有胜算的把握，那么你就坚持到底 。 无论是在爱情中或在股票市场，胜利者终会被奖赏。

Have a dog or many dogs or cats in your life. These are your anchors to windward and your unfailing source of love.

养一只狗或许多狗或猫，它们是你迎风而上的支柱，以及爱的源泉。

Ben Franklin summed it up well. In times of stress, the three best things to have are an old dog, an old wife and ready money. How right he was.

Ben Franklin 总结得好，在失意的时候有三宝，老狗、老婆和现金。他说得对极了.

THERE is more that could be said about the economics of love, but these thoughts may divert you while you are thinking about your future.

还有更多关于爱情的经济学的说法，但当你思考未来时，这些思想或许会许会使你感到高兴。

And let me close with another thought. I am far from glib about the economy. It has a lot of pitfalls facing it. As workers and investors, we know that many dangers lurk in our paths.

让我以另一种思想来作为结束。我对经济学的认识并不是肤浅的，它前面有许多陷井，作为研究者和投资者，我们知道前进的路上会有许多潜在的危险。

But so far, these things have always worked themselves out and this one will, too. In the meantime, they say that falling in love is wonderful, and that the best is falling in love with what you have.

但迄今为止，这些观点总能证明其正确性，这个亦如此。同时，他们说恋爱是美妙的，而最美妙的是爱上你所拥有一切。

总是寻思一件事情:时间究竟是拿什么计算来的

八年前的夏天,我不到14,你22

八年后的夏天,我不到22,你已而立

明天是你生日,
看百度贴吧里资深的粉们忙活的不亦乐乎,
我只是静静的潜水,看他们的喜悦,都是来源于你.
这种感觉甚是奇妙``
我承认自己不是什么真正的姿迷,对于你的种种知之不多(当然,对比于他们,很专业的粉们)

喜欢不一定要狂热``
只是听你的音乐,有机会买你的CD,看你的MV
喜欢你的笑容,你的风格
像邻家姐姐.不做作,不矫情


明天是你生日,我是最近才记清楚的,因为在这以前都不怎么去贴吧(资深的粉们看见估计有朝我拍砖的...),而立之年,期待未来N个八年,我们都有各自的精彩

@人就活这一次,理应活的飞扬跋扈``
@天空  天很空  空的不想再容纳一粒灰尘``
@虹,是看上去很近的那种远``
@生活就是让弱者感觉无奈,让强者感觉无聊的游戏``
@无尽的空间 以一种空虚填补另一种空虚``
@为寻找而寻找,只会在寻找中迷失``
@要输就输给追求 要嫁就嫁给幸福``
@所有的把握只是在加速一种失去``
@迷宫般的城市 总有莫名的寂寞 你永远不知道你会错过什么 各种关于追寻的巧合和错过 编织着城市丛林里的忧郁和软弱
@成长的日子 撕了皮连着肉``
@一路上有人太早看透生命的线条 命运的玄妙 有人太晚觉悟 冥冥之中 该来则来 无处可逃该走则走 无法挽留``
@看不见雪的冬天 我们把它当春天好不好？
@记忆像是倒在掌心的水 无论你摊开还是握紧 总会从指缝中一点一滴流淌干净``
@那些说给树听的话 嵌在树的年轮里 随流年一点点长成参天的回忆``
@我一点也不孤单 因为我的世界只有我一个人已经足夠热闹了``
@一个人如果想做他喜欢的事情 就一定要做很多他不喜欢的事情 很多很多``
@从前总以为收信很快乐 因为那表明远方有朋友 现在才知道 收信不一定是好事 因为那意味着朋友在远方``
@时间仍在 是我们飞逝``
@不是每个人都可以兴风作浪``

一个经典的阴谋家,能成就很多,也能摧毁很多.
不要把自己装进这样的怪圈:要么忙着算计他人,要么淅沥糊涂的被算计.
然而,时间是不讲什么游戏规则的.
他总是伤害最爱钻牛角尖的人---最可爱且最易受伤的人.
现在的生活能成就什么样的群体,跟我们大多数没关系,不用着急到撞墙找答案
有自己的圈子一切就OK,没有三头六臂的本事,就一普通人儿
然而,时间总是很残忍的把你揪出来,看看过去,瞧瞧当前,最可怕的是
连自己也被忽悠的今昔对比痛苦不堪.
人,都是有痛处的,何必,被一阴谋家欺负的哭爹喊娘.
潇洒的对镜子里的自己笑笑,你是很强的人儿,在自己的圈子里普通并伟大着

写在后面:我们都在长大,成长的事情本来就有很多无可奈何,这时候需要有人倾诉,途径很多啦,这个写给能对号入座的我的朋友们.